Posted by u/Outrageous_Bell4293 14 hours ago

My husband and me, friends for 49 years and married for 32. We aren’t lucky, we work at this.

How we do this.
We recognize that we come to the relationship with our challenges as individuals. We realize that our experiences are individual to each of us, and we bring these experiences to the relationship. Recognizing this allows us the space for intimacy “Into me you see.” Recognition that we are all monkeys on the rock and that what most of us want is to be heard and loved, this understanding ourselves makes it easier to manage the inevitable challenges that will come up. I also personally believe that love wins and is the best path forward for all humans.
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