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r/dating_advice

Share your favorite tips, ask for advice, and encourage others about anything dating.

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Weekly Vents and Successes Thread- December 28, 2020

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Weekly Vents & Successes

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Communicate. Communicate. Communicate. Learn what your boundaries are. Voice them. Get comfortable voicing them. Do not let things fester up.

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How to not be the “nice girl” or “too nice” in the dating world?

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Posted by u/Protomize

Physical attraction is the most important trait.

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Posted by u/brittneyacook

“If he wants to, he will make time”

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Am I being sensitive or is he rude

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Posted by u/FaithInStrangers94

Where the hell do people find the energy (and $) to go out so often?

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Posted by u/Ice666White

I Asked A Tinder Employee 35 Questions

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Excuse me, are my standards to high or are you just trash?

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I decided to stop online dating. 36m

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Posted by u/IEatShitRick

I Think People Who Throw Out "Hints" Deserve To Be Single

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Posted by u/agile_arugula

I (28M) had a date with a woman (41F) last night! Did I blow it?

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How to stay positive about dating with no success

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Pro tip: if you're going to date in the workplace, play the long game

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Posted by u/Icy-Word8774

Im a good person, but I'm in a really bad place.

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Posted by u/Pragmatic_Camembert

Dating advice for a 24 year old male with mild autism

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Posted by u/Jborle

I'm 32 years old living at home with mom. I just went out on a date with a doctor. Any advice is appreciated

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"Don't go looking for relationships, they will come to you" vs "If you aren't actively looking then you can't expect a relationship". Which one is right?

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Should I wait for him till he will ask me to be his girlfriend? Or should I just move on?

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How to be confident without being creepy?

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Posted by u/elliptical_leoinova

I always fall for the wrong guys and I've never felt attracted to the more introverted and kind men. Can this be changed or am I doomed?

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Posted by u/OfficialTrufflufigus

1 month in, nearly 10 dates, and a parent dinner. Suddenly ghosted

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Posted by u/nahnab

Why do men think I’m intimidating and how can I change that?

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Posted by u/Never-Really-There

If an OLD date doesn't seem like it will lead to a relationship, how do you ask for just friendship and/or sex instead?

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Get Hurt now or Later

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Posted by u/Zebitda

This is probably why you are not getting dates.

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Posted by u/hyumont

We are on a break and yet he still contacts me.

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Posted by u/PringlesAyy

Why and how I confronted my ghoster

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Posted by u/Cultural-Box-9203

Communication shouldn’t be hard

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Help me understand this.

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Posted by u/RandomPostingshiz

Am I the only one instantly turned off when a conversation turns sexual??

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Dating with low sex drive

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Posted by u/nicelasagnaa

i want to hook up with strangers but i don’t have the confidence

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A man with social media

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Posted by u/dr_quackington

Why is it socially acceptable that girls can tell all their friends about the details of our relationship?

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Posted by u/Low_Maintenance_2451

What should I do 🙈

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Posted by u/Ambitious_Curious

Need advice on navigating confusing signals from women plus general "Nice Guy" thoughts

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Make sure you have had time to process your previous relationship before dating again

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Restrictions With My (28M) Only FWB (23F) Who Flakes A Lot

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I am sick of being shy! Will appreciate your help

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Honestly, how would you react if your girlfriend got sexually harrassed when you are not around?

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I (22M) am Delaying Dating Until my Late 20s. Am I Making a Mistake?

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Hung out with a guy a couple times, but he does not initiate text messages or hang outs.

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How long do you wait before asking someone you like on a date? (After OLD texting)

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Cold approaching females

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Experience dating really nice guys?

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“Perfect House” creating relationship problems

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How to respond to this?

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Posted by u/walburgaismyname

How to gain confidence and open up to people?

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Advice for first date if we know each other fairly well

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# About

Ask for advice, share your favorite tips, and encourage others about anything dating.

This includes:

- Meeting people & starting conversations
- Flirting & expressing your intentions
- Creating meaningful connections
- Building confidence & self-esteem
- Overcoming "nice guy" syndrome
- Conquering sexual shame & anxiety
- Developing attractive body language

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