This is like... seriously bad. Rape is rape, regardless of perpetrator or victim.

This shit gets me so pissed off. I was molested as a child by a woman. At the time I thought I was having fun, doing the things adults do. I should note that female predators seek vounerable prey. I tried killing myself right before and again after the abuse stopped. I have had so many issues with creating bonds with people. Leading to more issues with self harm and suicide attempts. The damage a woman can do to a child is grossly missrepresented by society.

To me abuse is abuse regardless of gender. It's so short sighted and pathetic to believe that men have no feelings. We feel but we don't get heard when we are hurt.

I'm not the sharpest tool in the shed but this level of stupidity pisses me off. Abuse is abuse regardless of the gender. The reason why most men doesn't speak about abuse is due to this way of thinking.

I hate the “men are stronger so they can fight back easier” statement just because men are stronger doesn’t mean we can easily fight back men and women should be the same strength IS a difference but just saying “men are stronger” is a blank statement IMO

Not to downplay the horrific trauma women have to go through, not only the aftermath of the rape but the idea that people won't believe them. Men will almost certainly be *laughed at* if they're the victims of sexual assault. *"Man, you let her rape you? Why didn't you just beat her up?"* *"Man, she was hot! I'd have let her fuck me any day! Whats wrong with you!!"* Ignorant people have no idea about coercive sexual assault against men. This isn't to downplay rapes against women. Trauma affects everyone and it's not always about the *physical* damage sustained.

This person is delusional

Comparing one crime to another... IT'S STILL A FUCKING CRIME. There is no reason to give different sentences for the same crime.

Comes from the view that women are naturally less dangerous or threatening than men. Because of that view, people like this think "why would you be traumatised when a woman hurt you? She's just a woman!" As if women have never done horrible, heinous, disgusting things. Especially to children. This view is also not helped by the fact that in a lot of places, it's believed that it is physically and legally impossible for a woman to rape someone because she cannot penetrate. The definition of rape needs to be widened.

I've always believed a pedo is a pedo, regardless of gender, age etc. And a victim is a victim, they need help, support and care.

This is bullshit. Period.

Seeing that person’s comment history.... this isn’t the only stupid crap he’s said

"Men can get stronger and fight the rapist back" "Ight we got this, just lemme grow up to 18 yo so I can kick your ass before you rape me"

Are we gonna talk about how she said men don’t have high suicide rates? This is Reddit, if your gonna say something make sure that it’s right or go fuck yourself

As a male who has been on the receiving end of a lot of abuse. I never feel like I can say a thing. Well I guess except for right now with everyone here. People always expect me to be fine because that is the mask I have created. I make everything into a joke and try to spin things as positively as I can. However after awhile all the crap just... Well it just really screws with you. While in college, I was raped by a woman whom i barely knew (met her that night). I was not a party goer, but I went because a friend of mine wanted to go and he didn't want to go alone. Well at the party I started talking to this girl and she brought me a drink (in a red solo cup) I drank it to be polite (I also do not drink, I don't really enjoy alcohol) but for whatever reason I drank it. Then everything is a blur after that. And Next thing I knew I woke up next to her naked. No clue what had happened just a huge feeling of fear and panic. I quickly found my things and left. Its been years since then and I still get shivers when I think about that night. I have not told any of my friends because I fear they will not understand. So instead I ignore it and pretend that it didn't happen. But recently I have faced another example of how cruel people can be, and this one is arguably worse. My friend group has been the same circle of people for 12 years. Well my ex from high school/freshman year of college tried to join the group (she was friends with some of the guys girlfriends). I played it cool even though seeing her was not easy for me. Back my freshman year I found put she cheated on me and broke things off. Well what she didn't know is that I had bought her a ring thinking I was going to propose. So when she rejoined the group I was in a huge state of internal conflict, all the old feelings started to resurface. Well then she tried to get me trown out of thr group and stated it was either me or her. Luckily my friends said uhhh him lol. After that she left for 2 years. Then... She came back. But this time she played a different strategy. She joined the group and immediately came to me to appologize for all her drama. All those feelings came back up and I still not wanting to cause a rift in the group, forgave her. Boy was that a mistake. She spent a year in the group. She even moved in with my friend Chris and his wife. Well during this year with covid and everything I have not seen everyone as much as I used too. I live an hour away so it was hard to hang out even before the pandemic. Well she made her move and this time she was smart about it. She has effectivly alienated me from all of my "friends". She has made the bold claim to all of them that I raped her. So all of my friend one by one stopped talking to me until finally one of them confronted me and started yelling at me about how I'm going to hell and so on. He demanded that if I was innocent I would give him proof that I did not do it. And well the only way I can think to prove I didn't was to have an alibi. So I asked him to tell me when it happened and he couldn't. He just said that it would not matter even if I had an alibi. So just like that I lost everyone important to me. She had cut me out of the friend group with one lie. And yet I put on a smile every day when I see family or am at work. Because it is what is expected of me. Sorry for the long rant. I have had it on my mind for some time and this just happens that you all are my vent. It just baffles me how people can be so heartless and manipulative. It makes it really hard for me to trust people. You never know what they truly think..

[https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gender\_differences\_in\_suicide](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gender_differences_in_suicide) Literally 1st article that appeared after searching average suicide rate. So "crippling depression, suicide rates or dating issues" is out of the window. Everyone can take easy way out. And It's really sexism. Everyone after rape has no idea what to do, Gender doesn't matter. "Men can get stronger and fight rapist back, women can't". Hahaha yes because boys equals always strong girls equals weak and terrified of everything haha yes. Stereotypes Am I right? I'm 16 y/o male so It means I can kill a fucking elephant with bare fists haha. No, It's not how that works. Most of the times there are not so many diffrences because of gender. Boys CAN be weak and scared, and Girls CAN have six pack and Do some Dopamine shit like Jumping out of the plane. ​ Jesus It actually hurt my mind that I was writing those quotes.

(Similar logic) That mother who murdered her children by starving them and drowning them doesn’t deserve as much hate as the abusive father who snapped one day and shot the entire family. The damage isn’t as bad.

OC just wanted to do his teacher.

Everyone wants Equality for both men and women, yet somehow nothing is Equally given no matter the issues.

As a male who was sexually assaulted on his bus back from school at the age of 15, this sickens me. At the time I felt that if I said anything I wouldn't have been taken seriously, that I'd be just another teen making some noise (my area had a bad reputation of troublesome and abusive school kids, especially on public transport). Back in the day my bus didn't have cameras, and it was always a later ride home, too, so fewer passengers. This wasnt a girl my age either, it was a woman much older than me (mid to late 40s), not somebody I'd have considered attractive. I was very much an introvert, and didn't like to stand out, which is why I would always take the back of the bus, rather than be at the front (that and for some reason being at the back always seemed to make my travel sickness more manageable, but that's a weird me thing I reckon). This woman had complete confidence in herself, which I think was one of the things that terrified me, and was very quick to assume I was a fit young man and an active school football player (UK), and I guess figured that was enough reason to massage my thighs and other local body parts. She seemed to enjoy the power, and then it got worse when she mocked me for my younger and "cute" equipment (which has taken me years to accept as average and be comfortable with). I had no voice, it just left me. I just turned my face to the window, and tried to get through it. She was only on the bus for about 12 minutes of my 30 minute journey, but in that time she managed to decide to sit with me, massage my thighs, stroke my manhood, ridicule my size with a smile on her face, and leave. I felt sick all the time, but I had younger siblings to take care of at home, so I had to put on a face and bare it. Only when everybody was in bed could I try to quietly break down under my sheets. About a month after all this I finally cried at home, and my mother managed to convince me to tell her everything, that speaking up didn't make me weak or less of a man. We got the police involved. They had somebody follow me on my bus for a couple of weeks, but I never saw her again. It went nowhere. I remember my mum telling me that there wasn''t any leads. The driver recognised the description but she wasn't all too regular. After a few suspects I confirmed were the wrong person the ended the investigation, and that's all I really remember. After a couple of weeks off from school, I managed to get up and say I would continue school, but we bought a bike and I'd the 5 miles home. I taught myself to be more vocal, and use my deeper booming voice. I also taught myself and my younger sister to ask people to maintain distance and a personal space. I did whatever I could to make sure nobody would touch me again, and also to not LOOK like somebody could ever feel they could touch me again. I'm all for equal rights, and I'm well aware that female rape victims far outweighs the male ones, but, it happens. This male stigma is killing people every year. "Men aren't victims because they're stronger, and they can enjoy it". Not all men are "strong", and on top of that, women aren't inherently "weak". Just because a penis it touched doesn't mean that man enjoys it. On top of THAT, if I'm not strong then I'm not "manly"? Jesus Christ, I hate all this talk. Look, all I wanna end on is if a person touches/molests/harrases another person without consent, regardless of gender, then it is assault. Do not dissect the charge by messing about with age, gender, or any of that shit. I sincerely wish all the best to other victims of abuse, and especially to those who felt they couldn't speak up. There's always somebody who will want to listen.

Sexism is sexism, even if it favors females

Wow. That person is dumb as fuck.

There are countries where the suicide rate is 76% men but people still want to say that men suffer less

> male victims don't have crippling depression, high suicide rates or datinf issues What the actual fuck? *70%* of suicides are men. [Seventy fucking percent](https://www.verywellmind.com/men-and-suicide-2328492) of suicides are men, not women. This dude knows nothing.

what sucks is that men statistically kill themselves more often. The male suicide rate is higher.

I absolutely agree. Rape doesn't become sex just because the perpetrator is a woman.

So women who groom children to be their personal mindless fuck toy so they can sell them for drugs are what? Entrepreneurs?

I wonder if they ever understand that they are just about the stupidest motherfucker to exist in their area

did they just compare people getting raped to walmart getting robbed?

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So anyway K*ll all rapists and pedos. This is basically what people fight against for female victims saying "boys don't get it as bad." is the same as "well she deserved it." Men's rights is a part of feminism they just have a twisted view on shit.

Smh. Yes. Women r just as capable of these crimes as men. Men don’t report it as much.

Mommy why do I have to eat my greens? So you can grow stronger and fight back the female rapists!

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"Male victims don't have crippling depression, high suicide rates, or dating issues". What in the fuck are you talking about!? Ignorant waste of skin.

Imagine making pedophilia have a better face if you are a woman 🙃

Just out of curiosity, do you play Warhammer 40K/AOS or is that just part of the name?

I got “overly sexualized” let’s say, at a really young age by adults of both genders. I sorta joked about when it was a woman because “score!” Right? But my whole adult life has been a mess because of it. It seeped into every facet of my life and I’m only just getting a hold of it and I’m 50. Fuck people like this. Truly.

This bitch is living in the early 1900's

She does prefer men over women as you can see if you check her profile since she hates being a women

This is sexist towards woman too. Like “yeah, women are weak both physically and emotionally and just can’t deal with trauma the way MEN can, also a WOMAN can’t be a horrible abuser to a strong MAN” sir stooooop

Can someone sum this up to something akin to normal. I read it 4 times and my mind cannot wrap around the point its trying to make

Okay the problem here is that a lot of woman want genders to be even then they pull a stunt like this trying to say why one deserves more than the other. I mean a lot of women are chill and don't do stuff like this but it annoys me when someone like this says this shit and doesn't know wtf there talking about.

I’ve heard several times throughout high school and college that if two people are intoxicated and have sex that the male can be charged with rape “because of the penetration” (that is a direct quote ive heard from teachers and administrators). Following that logic, wouldn’t this person have a point? If we are setting a legal precedent that rape is defined differently for males vs females, isn’t it logical to draw the conclusion that it can effect one sex differently than the other? Edit: or were those teachers/admins wrong to use that phrasing? The legal precedent would still remain though

Sadly, rule 1 applies to everybody.

"don't have yada yada..." Not only is that false, but the presumption is despicable.

I agree that person is crazy, but women do have have a higher depression rate then men.

So since it's not hard to follow comments trails, I'm quite sure the account is b8.

I’m gonna say I agree but for a different reason. At the rate I’m going, I’m gonna die a virgin, so if I get to have sex I can die happy. Edit: y am I getting downvoted? I’m just saying that if I got “raped” by a woman (which is impossible cuz rape implies unwillingness, when I would be 100% willing) I’d be fine with it.

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