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20 Dec 2020
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Posted by u/doobster0000 1 week
Thank you 🙏
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Posted by u/doobster0000 1 week
Help! haha
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Posted by u/doobster0000 1 week
this is amazing. thank you
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Posted by u/doobster0000 1 week
true she’s definitely plotting my murder
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Posted by u/doobster0000 3 weeks
Wowowowoww yeah psychos are all over here
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Posted by u/doobster0000 3 weeks
Bruh this guy is pathetic
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Posted by u/doobster0000 4 weeks
Hahahahaha you literally called me a loser incel over a TAQUITO FROM 7-11
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Posted by u/doobster0000 4 weeks
Well I didn’t make it up but that’s cool have fun and I’m soo sad you’re blocking me omg :((( I’m so upset I’m gonna go write about it in my diary ! See ya later sweetie
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Posted by u/doobster0000 4 weeks
Get a life babyboy
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Posted by u/doobster0000 4 weeks
uwu somebody is angwy
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Posted by u/doobster0000 4 weeks
Nope just crazy
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Posted by u/doobster0000 4 weeks
Well...
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Posted by u/kanexa 1 month
I’m so proud of you! It’s the most liberating feeling. You won’t regret it.
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Posted by u/Tell-Me-Whyy 1 month
So. Fucking. Needed this.
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Posted by u/AkindSource 1 month
Woah,, thank you
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Posted by u/AkindSource 1 month
Caring, loving, kind. I would like the name to be male. Thank you!
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Posted by u/PalmFingerNails 1 month
sorry I stopped smoking weed in the mornings...
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Posted by u/PalmFingerNails 1 month
What is happening here
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Posted by u/JJTH3B3AST 1 month
You dont have to say you're getting triggered to clearly appear very triggered. It's a fucking emoji get a fucking life
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Posted by u/shesagoodfella 1 month
You are super super gorgeous and look like a really nice person.
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Posted by u/doobster0000 1 month
True, i shall
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Posted by u/doobster0000 1 month
Of course !
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Posted by u/doobster0000 1 month
Thank you for the support. If you’re seeing it you should definitely look up different interpretations of the number and see if any of them apply to your life or your unconscious desires/fears/beliefs. You got this :)
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Posted by u/Arctic_Wolf654 1 month
Thank you
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Posted by u/astroluminaria 1 month
Scorpio moon here too! Definitely gotta trust our instincts.
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Posted by u/Lumpy-space_princes3 1 month
I have a Sagittarius Calico baby who's about a year old and she really is a "saggiterrorist." she gets off on terrorizing the dogs in the house and then will act all cute and cuddly a few minutes later, confused as to why the dogs can't keep up with her constant messing around lol. She wants to be the center of attention and she follows me into every single room, even when I take a bath she sits in the room with me. She loves to explore. She is literally the sweetest and kindest cat but it's so funny when she messes with people and especially the dogs for fun.
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Posted by u/[deleted] 2 months
Hi friend 😂❤️
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Posted by u/doobster0000 2 months
I am happy you've learned to establish boundaries and take care of yourself. My grandma had the same job except at a high school for "juvenile delinquent teens" for 40 years and felt nothing but disrespect and resistance from the school board especially, just as you described, but the need to help always persisted stronger than anything. thank you for sharing your story with me.
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Posted by u/doobster0000 2 months
Thank you for saying that, it is very important to take care of yourself and that’s one reason I hesitate to go into the field. However if I learn now to set my boundaries I feel like I can do it! And I don’t really want to be a therapist per say but I would like to work in the psychology/behavioral field and help in the best way I can without emotionally draining myself... because it feels like every person I meet or every person I try to have a casual relationship with ends up getting slightly emotionally dependent on me? And that’s exhausting especially after growing up in traumatic circumstances with having an absolute psychopath of a father. All that to say... you are so right, and would you mind if I asked what you do for a living? And it seems like the ones who have had the worst lives can make the most difference :-)
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Posted by u/doobster0000 2 months
Hi, first of all I love your username. Thank you for being proud of me, this comment made me smile. And it’s funny you say that because I’ve always felt like my true calling was to help people in that way, whether through teaching / mentoring. Thanks for motivating me further, I’ll see what I can do! And you’re right, I definitely learned a lot from people who have been in my shoes before rather than random trained psychologists or life coaches who just do it to do it.
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Posted by u/doobster0000 2 months
Honestly I felt like external factors (the stress of my relationship, people who suck all my energy, toxic work environment etc) motivates me because I do not want to end up like any of the people who hurt me because they’re miserable. And chances of that happening are higher if I give in to the inner demon telling me I’m gonna fail and telling me it’s not gonna work. I forced myself to make a “schedule” and even if I didn’t really follow it, because I’m awful at following routines, I still managed to use it as a base. Sooo when I have 4 classes I’ll do one class I love and one class I like less on one day, and then switch... obviously didn’t always work since I’d end up doing it all in a day or two, but having it all written down and the deadline being there stressed me out and motivated me enough to get it done by the deadline because I have so much guilt if i’m late for anything. that helped. So I don’t know if it’ll work for you but maybe try using one of your own weaknesses against you if that makes sense... and I couldn’t do it alone obviously, but the internet saves you for that. YouTubers and goal-oriented websites have so many resources to help.. :) sorry if this was a little rambley I just woke up
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Posted by u/bigiftrues 2 months
Thanks for the suggestions , I’m gonna ask my roommate/friend to do this with me :)
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Posted by u/doobster0000 2 months
Thank you so much! Good luck to you and your studies as well. I am proud of myself and I hope you are too <3 You got this
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Posted by u/doobster0000 2 months
Omg yes!! I am so proud of you. thank you for sharing your journey. you got this! you will lose the weight in due time, please please be healthy and take care of yourself though. fast fast weight loss can be dangerous<3 good luck with your weight loss and also your amazing future career in CS. you're doing amazing.
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Posted by u/doobster0000 2 months
Fuck our dads...we deserve better. and I'm glad you got out of it no matter how old you are. Trauma makes us grow up fast though! I am also rooting you on, internet friend :)
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Posted by u/doobster0000 2 months
THANKS <3
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Posted by u/Psychocrates 2 months
Yes you’re so right, it applies to meditation as well. One step at a time
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Posted by u/bigiftrues 2 months
I’m so impressed! I really want to meal plan, and this is such a well organized and complete one
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Posted by u/Psychocrates 2 months
You can do it! Start off slower and less than you think , it’s better to do 20 min everyday than 45min + and exhaust yourself and dread the workout and stop altogether. And a lot of YouTubers have free workout plans !
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Posted by u/doobster0000 2 months
Thank you very much !! You’re right, I can always take a class or two off as long as I’m eventually going to get the degree. I appreciate the tip and so far, so good! Fingers crossed that this year is better for everybody
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Posted by u/doobster0000 2 months
Thank you for sharing your story. I really appreciate it and I hope you have created or are working towards creating the life you want. ❤️
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Posted by u/doobster0000 2 months
Thanks so much I appreciate it ❤️
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Posted by u/doobster0000 2 months
Hugs to you, thank you ❤️
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Posted by u/[deleted] 2 months
So happy for you. It isn’t easy!
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Posted by u/doobster0000 2 months
I’m so happy for you too !
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Posted by u/doobster0000 2 months
Thank you for the recommendation!
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Posted by u/doobster0000 2 months
Thank you kind stranger ❤️
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Posted by u/doobster0000 2 months
YESSS let’s keep it up :-“) we’ve gotten so far
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Posted by u/doobster0000 2 months
Thank you endlessly ❤️
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Posted by u/doobster0000 2 months
THANK YOOOU :-“) I sure did. And I’m gonna keep at it. Take that, life
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Posted by u/doobster0000 2 months
No your response didn’t sound awful, it’s just true. Most people really don’t want to see you succeed because it threatens them and their ego. And it sounds like you need a friend cleanse! If you ever want to message me to chat my inbox is open. Thank you so much for the support, as long as we keep making the best choices for ourselves it will only continue to improve ❤️
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Posted by u/doobster0000 2 months
That’s why I never brag! I’ve accomplished and gone through SO much but no one would ever know because they’ll think I’m showing off...thank you for being proud of me, we have to keep supporting and uplifting each other. I don’t understand why people would want to drag each other and themselves down, I guess it’s because they’re unhappy but it’s still shitty. I’m so proud of you, too!!! Hope your studies continue to go well, or if they’re finished then congrats :-)
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Posted by u/doobster0000 2 months
Thanks !! And that’s fine, it’s the grade point average, so the scale ranges from 0-4, with 4 being the highest number :)
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Posted by u/doobster0000 2 months
Alcohol and low sleep is what usually contributed me going into bad situations so for context that’s what I mean ! I will be nice to myself ! good luck in your New Years plans as well
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Posted by u/doobster0000 2 months
Thank you very much, I’ll make sure to keep reminding myself of that. One good thing is that the antidepressant I’m on doesn’t allow me to drink alcohol (more than 1 drink) and I have to sleep more than 5 hours a night or else my brain fucks up, so it’s a great little boost of support. I will be consistent, that’s my goal ! Happy new year to you and thanks again ❤️❤️
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Posted by u/doobster0000 2 months
Ugh I can’t thank you enough for your insight, it’s short and simple and I appreciate you. You’re definitely right, it’s all about the *boundaries* which I’m working on and I’m working on building my self esteem back up. I’m looking forward to February.
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Posted by u/awkward-introvert99 2 months
happy new year <3 im at home in my room with my cat, it aint too shabby....
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Posted by u/doobster0000 2 months
I mean like the moon/venus of the other person. any ideal ones? lol
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Posted by u/doobster0000 2 months
Thank you, I do indeed consider myself a really dedicated and hard worker. I just need to find the right project to expand on! Any recommendations? Also... lol at the Aries cancer insight because thats what I've always heard and this is like my 4th cancer in a row, I need to stop!!! And scorpio....whewwww what about the moon/venus? I feel like my placements are so sensitiveeee and possessive
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Posted by u/[deleted] 2 months
aww Im so sorry, I feel as if every other post is somebody's pet dying right now and it's so sad to see yours included. <3 sending love
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Posted by u/doobster0000 2 months
I literally just want to live my own life and focus on myself. I feel like I don’t even have my own interests or hobbies anymore because I’ve had to fucking take care of everybody all the time and it makes me think it’s normal in a partnership. Why am I not being taken care of in an equal or at least close to equal manner ? I have a couple good friends I moved in with that are wonderful to me, but I have a hard time being single because I feel like I *need* that person. And I can’t let go of my ex because now he wants to get back together in some time, though a part of me thinks it’s going to turn to shit again and it’s very conflicting because I feel like I can trust him and I love him but at the same time I always feel doubt. And I just don’t know I’m sick of being in CONSTANT conflict with my emotions and my logic. I’ll also mention that he is a Cancer and I seem to keep getting those... lol. I lived with him and everything.
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Posted by u/TheeMagicalHag 2 months
3 please ✨
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Posted by u/nickmast1 2 months
Agreed! I’m anxious as fuck and this really calmed me down because it’s true and it brought me back to reality a bit.
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Posted by u/puppers50 2 months
Haha I also got dumped a week before Christmas and on Christmas Day I found out he cheated on me a few months ago 😎
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Posted by u/doobster0000 2 months
U too :)
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Posted by u/doobster0000 2 months
Lots of love xx
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Posted by u/doobster0000 2 months
You as well !!! Thank you kindly
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Posted by u/doobster0000 2 months
Lol well we are all one obviously but there’s still the power you have to channel and for some it works to separate and for some it works to merge :) We all have different perspectives and methods.
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Posted by u/doobster0000 2 months
You can google it because there are a few different interpretations but here is one source https://www.thelawofattraction.com/means-see-repeating-numbers/
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Posted by u/doobster0000 2 months
Hi thank you for this reminder :) it is easy to forget throughout all the chaos in life. Creating more positive thought patterns is something I am working on, though it is not easy I know it’s worth it in the end!
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Posted by u/doobster0000 2 months
Thank you so much. It’s very difficult but I deserve to be treated way better. And if I can cut off friends and family because of how they treat me I am not settling for less especially when I am a considerate and selfless partner. Take care xx
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Posted by u/doobster0000 2 months
Thank you for the confirmation :) I truly believe this.
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Posted by u/doobster0000 2 months
Well then why are you even on this subreddit :) maybe you’re better suited for a different one
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